I love the hairstyle and look of the braids, but the feel is tooooo much for my poor sensitive scalp/tender head. My braider did the cornrows extremely loose because I, of course, told her about my scalp/sensitivity.
Despite her finest attempts, however, my head is in revolt. In a blog post I drafted a while ago, I told myself to remember that adding extensions to my hair has never gone well. Wigs yes, but connecting hair/extensions, no!
I tried massaging and oiling my scalp to no avail throughout the week. I tried rinsing/moisturizing my hair. It is one week in and my scalp is screaming at me.
Ah, c’est la vie. Now I’m on the look out for a good wig for my large head. Lol. Wish me luck and all input/advice are encouraged and definitely wanted!!!
If you follow this blog, you know one of the main things missing from my regimen is “traditional” protective styling. That is, styles that protect the ends because they are some combination of: (1) low manipulation; (2) ends are tucked away/hidden; and (3) last more than a week–from what I can tell, the longer the style lasts the better. I avoided protective styles for two main reasons, my hair/scalp is not a fan of extensions or weaves–too much stress for my fine strands, and I did not think the appearance of some styles would satisfy my hair style aesthetic.
However, while fueling my natural hair obsession through research, I saw the emergence (re-emergence, for some, but it is the FIRST TIME I ever heard of them) of crochet braids and was immediately intrigued. A protective style that did not take as long or cost as much as a weave; did not place too much stress on your strands during/post installation; embraced adding textured fake hair–I didn’t want to be without kinky-curly locks; and is touted by many across the natural hair online stratosphere. I was sold, so on a sunny Friday afternoon (November 1st), I got crochet braids.
The process in a nutshell: cornrow hair, then crochet the hair of your choosing to the braids using the hair only; no thread is involved. The cost of installation & cornrows $80. The hair I purchased (see pic below) retails for $5.99/bag for 14 inches (I used three full bags).
What I told the stylist: “my hair is fine; I have an extremely tender, finicky scalp, so no tight cornrows.” After installation, my stylist said my hair was Diana Ross status, but I was going for more of an angled bob, so she set about shaping my newly crocheted mane. The results:
Until next time, Katie-kaboom says, ta ta for now! Literally, because she is braided and hidden under my crochet braids. 🙂
(Pictures at end of the post)
The in-between stage has arrived for Katie-kaboom. Gone are the days of virtually effortless wash ‘n goes in under 10 minutes of shower time. It is the stage where I must re-learn my hair at this length in its natural state. I–somewhat begrudgingly–accept the challenge…
What the in-between stage really means for me is learning from and reminding myself of the past! I have tried many protective styles touted by the natural hair community during my lifetime. Some worked and others did not, so as Katie and I tackle the “in-between” stage she finds it important to remind me of the following:
- I have never had a positive long-term weave or braid-extension experience. My hair strands are fine/medium (with a tendency toward fine) and not densely arranged on my scalp (i.e. my hair is thin)…The stress that weaves put on my hair is simply too much for my strands to withstand.
- Twist outs don’t work on fine, thin hair. Okay, they do work, I just do not like how they look on my hair at this length (I used to love them when my hair was longer!). As a result, I must try other styles. In the near future, I plan to try a flat twist (or braid) out and will post result pictures once I do.
- I must rethink my shampoo strategy. I cannot do what I see in the commercials anymore, unless I want to tack on a lot of detangling time AND put unnecessary stress on my strands. So circular motion shampooing is out, and shampooing my scalp and down the upper length of my hair is in!
- I must begin experimenting with protective styles that “stretch” my hair. Darn it, this means trial and error, which equals more time, which means my KISS mentality will be tested until I find a style(s) I like.
Until I find more go-to styles, I’m still rocking my wash ‘n goes, but am challenging myself to make them last 5 days or more. Last week’s wash ‘n go lasted 6 days (see pictures below)! So, it can be done.
How do you style your fine, thin natural hair? Any go-to styles? Let me know because I need style experiment ideas. See you next time! Xoxo